Blaine's latest...

are several cool feature stories. (I'm way behind in my Blaine publicity work.)

1. On the front page of today's paper (Fri 11/21), Blaine has a wonderfully written "Innovators" piece called "Kafka of the Cubicle,". It's a delightful story about a computer guy who has invented a best-selling comic-book character called "Otaryman." The best thing about the piece is the lede:

By Blaine Harden
Washington Post Foreign Service
Friday, November 21, 2008; Page A01

TOKYO -- The American poet Theodore Roethke called it "the inexorable sadness of pencils." It's the desolation of time lost and dreams forsaken while sitting in an office.

Blaine says he read that poem in college! I'm impressed. Lucinda thinks "inexorable sadness of pencils" is very funny and, at dinner, offered "the inexorable sadness of" lots of other stuff, while Arno joked a dozen times about the "inexorable sadness of underpants."

2. Blaine wrote a neat story about incinerators in central Tokyo that burn trash at an extraordinarily high temperature (8500 degrees Centigrade) and use the heat to create electricity (via steam-driven turbines) for 20,000 households, to make sand for bricks and roads, and to heat water for a swimming pool at the "garbage factory," as it calls itself. And this incinerator is odor-free. Could that ever be built in NYC? (Here's the video.)

3. And he wrote a front-page story about this country's amazing "konbini" - convenience stores - that are ever more profitable even as grocery stores and dept stores have been losing money for decades.

He went to "Happy Lawson, a kid-friendly store that overlooks Yokohama Harbor, you can buy fresh sushi and carbon offsets, pay income tax and change diapers, book airplane tickets and sip vodka coolers. There's hot soup, cold beer, fresh bread, clean toilets, french fries, earwax remover, spotless floors, and a broadband-empowered machine that will order home appliances, book concert tickets and sign you up for driver's ed." And here's the video.

What's Going On

(With a nod to Newsday's former editor, Tony Marro, who always headlined his staff memos this way.)

Let's see, lots going on:

- Tomorrow, Nov 15, is Arno's 4th birthday. I think Lucinda will make pancakes for us all, because that's a 1st grade homework assignment as part of the food/health unit.

- On Sunday, seven four and five yr olds will come to our house for Arno's "superhero" birthday party. He chose the theme, and it's generic enough that I can serve Spiderman pasta and Superhero hotdogs and play a Buzz Lightyear game and no one will care. Every kid will decorate a superhero mask and shield and I'm making capes for them to wear (Hopefully my attempt to make eveything will work out all right.)

- I've worked long hours at my magazine, Kateigaho International Edition, this week and Blaine has collected the kids from school and made dinners. Nice role reversal!

- Next week, the kids have 3 days of school and 3 days of vacation wrapped around parent-teacher conferences and next weekend. I'm working on the Nishimachi book fair on Wednesday and getting mildly involved in Nishimachi's spring auction.

- Arno has been very moody recently, mostly depending on his willingness to go to sleep at a reasonable hour. On Monday and Tuesday, after he'd slept badly, he was a total pain. But Wed-Fri, we got him into bed early and threatened him w/toy-loss if he didn't stay there, so he a much happier and more enjoyable creature.

- Lucinda has been very confident lately. We've hired a Japanese tutor for a weekly lesson, which Lu enjoys. She is very proud that she knows all 46 of the hiragana and she is working on reading simple hiragana books. She's also become more interested and confident in addition and subtraction because her teacher focuses on math first thing in the morning. Her other focus in life is the game of Tag, which I think she plays at each of 3 daily recesses. I will write more about Tag at some point.

That's the overall update. We're doing well at the moment.

Post-election post

Geez, it's been almost an entire week since the election, and I'm finally getting around to writing about it. Thrilling result, obviously.

My mom, Sheila, was visiting with my stepfather, Blake. So we threw an election-day party. The Denver mother of a Tokyo friend, Susan Mulcahy, was here, with another Denver friend - whose daughter, it turned out, went to elementary and junior high school with me. Does that make sense? Grandmothers, mothers, and daughters - that sums it up. I also invited some American friends from Nishimachi. We had pastries, lots of coffee from Tully's and, eventually, sandwiches for lunch.

We turned on CNN at 8 a.m. Wednesday in Tokyo, which is 6 p.m. Tuesday on the East Coast, just as the first states were done voting. Things went pretty quickly in Obama's favor, as everyone knows.



Arno was an unexpected party guest; his teacher called me at 10 a.m. to say he wasn't feeling well. I brought him home and gave him a little medicine, and he was fine; he even refused to nap so he could hang out w/the grownups and watch election coverage.

Election in Tokyo

In a few hours, we'll go to sleep while America votes. And then we'll wake up on Wednesday, November 5, 2008, and watch the election returns on CNN. I think the first polls close at something like 8:30 a.m. in Tokyo.

My mom, who is a huge Obama fan and volunteer in Denver, is visiting, so we've invited some friends over to watch the returns with us. Should be fun. Full blog report tomorrow.

And if, by some stretch of horror, Obama loses, we're well-positioned to commit suicide.

Elex analysis

Here's what I've been thinking about lately - stories I'd like to see or write if I could. Of course this is predicated by the view that Obama will win tomorrow or hell will freeze over.

1. Look at the difference in nastiness between the Obama and McCain/Palin campaigns. True, Obama did imply that McCain was too old ("erratic") to be president and all but called Palin a ditz (that ad this weekend that featured her winking). But in lots of ways, the nature of the Obama campaign is the dog that didn't bark.

Take, for example, Al Qaeda's apparent/alleged endorsement of McCain. The Obama people didn't even mention it - but does anyone think the GOP would have ignored that for 5 mins had AQ's website promoted Obama?

Everyone thought the lesson of the Bush v. Gore and Bush v. Kerry campaigns was that you had to play as dirty as the GOP and Rove. That is, you had to grab every tiny opportunity to trash people.

But Obama managed, perhaps because of his generally sunny personality and smile and also because he focused mainly on big messages ("We can't afford 4 more years" and "voted with President Bush 90% of the time), to tiptoe through the tulips mostly unscathed without gutting his opponents personally. Kinda like this JibJab video when he flies around on a unicorn spouting "change!".

2. McCain has a weird Senate-ness about him - serial obsessions and language that prove he was stuck on the Senate floor focused on too-narrow issues that don't add up to anything significant. Like earmarks, and Columbia and Georgia (which he seems to mention constantly thanks to his lobbyist foreign-policy advisor), and the Boeing tanker deal he scotched, and "My friends!" I mean, sure, he could still win, but that would be in spite of himself, not because of his approach to campaigning. He's better off in the Senate, and he's lucky he didn't resign, like Dole did.

3. McCain does deserve credit for not playing the Rev. Wright card. This is, of course, what conservative Republicans will say did McCain in: they'll say he wasn't tough enough, he held back, he should have played even dirtier. But McCain and Palin don't deserve any credit for talking about socialism and Communism. That's just stupid.

4. Having said that, the McCain campaign did drop all sorts of anti-black and anti-gay hints at the end of the campaign. Like references to how raising taxes of hard-working people to "spread the wealth" to allegedly non-working people, which to me was an obvious allusion/smear of black welfare recipients. And various mentions of Barney Frank to crowds of Middle America - hmm, gee, why did they possibly mention Frank?

5. Palin is toast. She will run in 2012 and she will fail miserably and slink back to Alaska. Dan Quayle tried to run for President and it just didn't work. Once conservatives don't take you seriously, forget it. Also, it seems likely that there are more scandals buried in Alaska just waiting to turn up - who knows, maybe she won't survive her re-election campaign in 2010?

6. When it's all over, Hillary and McCain will go out to a bar and drink shots of tequila and whine about losing. Can you imagine the conversation: "I can't believe we both lost to Obama!" That would be a good SNL skit in the next few months.

7. I'd like to read a story about how black voters were mobilized in the South, presumably by churches or the NAACP or the Obama campaign. If Obama wins anything in the South, it will be because of black turnout - which takes serious organization, yes, but also serious commitment on the part of black leaders to get every possible voter registered and to the polls. Maybe that story has been written, but I haven't read it.

Election guessing

Back of the envelope guess about battleground states:

Obama will win PA, NC, VA, OH, CO, NV, NM, NH, ND and MT. Which would be a really huge win, and maybe I'm guessing a few states too far.

McCain will win FL, IN, and GA.

I'll go out on a limb and say the Dems will win 60 Senate seats, too. In 2006, everything broke their way in the Senate - so why not now? Maybe Obama voters will deliver an upset in KY or GA. One can only hope to wave au revoir to Mitch McConnell or Saxby Chambliss.

I don't have any idea about House numbers, but it won't really matter. It would be nice if Marilyn Musgrave, a GOP member in Colorado, loses because she's quite horrible.

And Christine Gregoire will be narrowly re-elected as WA governor. Hard to see how that many voters in WA split their tickets, when the state should be very strong for Obama.

So there are my guesses. But I do remember 1994, when I covered what I assumed would be the losing campaign night of an obnoxious GOP House member on Long Island - and he went on to win, along with Pataki (over Cuomo) and heaps of Republicans. What did I know then - and maybe what do I know now?

TV and teen pregnancy

Scanning the web for Monday's news, this WashPost headline certainly caught my eye!

Study First to Link TV Sex To Real Teen Pregnancies

Of course one can suspect such things, but statistics leave a much more powerful impression. Here's the lede:

By Rob Stein
Washington Post Staff Writer
Monday, November 3, 2008; Page A01

Teenagers who watch a lot of television featuring flirting, necking, discussion of sex and sex scenes are much more likely than their peers to get pregnant or get a partner pregnant, according to the first study to directly link steamy programming to teen pregnancy.

The study, which tracked more than 700 12-to-17-year-olds for three years, found that those who viewed the most sexual content on TV were about twice as likely to be involved in a pregnancy as those who saw the least.

"Watching this kind of sexual content on television is a powerful factor in increasing the likelihood of a teen pregnancy," said lead researcher Anita Chandra. "We found a strong association." The study is being published today in Pediatrics, the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics.

All I can add is: Wow.

Visitors from Denver

My mom, Sheila, and stepfather, Blake, are visiting for a few weeks. Sheila's cousin Lisa gave them two "buddy passes" from Delta, where Lisa worked for a very long time (Thanks, Lisa!), and helped them find flights in business class to Tokyo.

This is the second visit for Sheila and Blake together and the third for Sheila overall - we and the children greatly appreciate their presence. They've done some sightseeing and went to Kyoto for 3 days and 2 nights, returning this evening.

Now the kids want their attention for Halloween tomorrow, Lucinda's Brownie investiture, and various events over the weekend and next week. Meanwhile, I'm editing for Kateigaho International and doing other work, and volunteering for Nishimachi's upcoming book fair and spring auction. Lots going on these days.

We are also all waiting impatiently for next Tuesday's election to be over and done with.

This would be funnier if the real possibility of Sarah Palin as President weren't so scary!

Sarah Palin Disney Trailer | Funny Jokes at JibJab

Blaine's latest...

... is a story about the Japanese newspaper industry, which is doing well for now but will struggle when its elderly Japanese readership dies off. I'm sure the story will get some decent play on the Romenesko media gossip website.

Blaine has also been writing heaps of stories about the global economic crisis. The latest is an A1 story about the "spiral" of recession.

The sumo stable

The magazine that I help edit, Kateigaho International Edition, gave me my first writing assignment in Japan: 800 words about the experience of watching sumo for the first time.

I spent several hours a week ago at Kokonoe-beya, a famous sumo "stable". It was fascinating, slightly bizarre and very eye-opening. I've watched it on TV and assumed it was an odd sport. But the sumo guy I interviewed described it instead as a battle in which, he said, you want to "rip your opponent's head off."

We (me, my translator, a Japanese writer and 2 photographers) watched six young guys train for about an hour on the ground floor of the modern building where they also eat, sleep and live. This is what it looked like outside.


And inside the ground floor training/viewing room.


They train 7 days a week. Wearing only loin cloths and sometimes a bit of tape on toes or fingers, they face off dozens of times - losing repeatedly to stronger, bigger men. They are like football players, except that they don't have helmets or any physical protection; there's a good chance they'll wind up face down in the dirt or even with a broken neck.

Most contests last only seconds and have few rules. The two men face each other inside a rice-straw circle, called a dohyo. They touch their hands down on opposing white lines in the center before charging upward at each other. You lose if any part of your body, other than your feet, touches the ground or if you are forced out of the circle.


After each man was exhausted in the ring (among other training exercises), they did a bunch of sumo stomps, in which they lift and extend each leg at about 120 degrees. They are heavyset and sometimes even quite fat - but also shockingly strong and flexible.


At the end of their training, they did some stretches.


Finally, the wrestlers swept the clay floor with twig brooms and wiped down the walls, window sills and every surface in the room. They turned out the lights, leaving natural light for this lovely photo.


We went outside where the wrestlers were hanging out, barefoot, in the street.


I interviewed an articulate 23-yr-old guy, Chiyoshuhou, who's been at it for 5 yrs; he's still an amateur and he is paid a $250 monthly allowance in return for total 24-7 commitment. He described each sumo clash as "a minor car accident." It's terrifying, he said, so the stable master tells them, "You have to force yourself forward."


The wrestlers did their own laundry and dried it on the roof. Here are their loin cloths, which turn out to be about 20 feet long.


Later, I was invited to try their lunch. They eat twice a day and consume enormous quantities of sumo's special "Chanko" stew (made that day with pork, noodles, tofu, vegetables and miso broth), rice, grilled fish, fish eggs, squid, tea, more rice and more rice. Not a protein shake in sight!


Here's what I ate: rice, the stew (which was particularly delicious) and chewy sauteed squid with a brown sauce.


After lunch, in order of seniority, the wrestlers' long hair was combed into fresh topknots by the stable's hairdresser (top photo). The hairdresser combs grease into the hair with a very unusual comb and ties it with a string held in his teeth (middle photo) and folds it over. His implements are in the third photo.






After the hair ritual was finished, the men did the dishes, cleaned the kitchen and dining room, and went upstairs for a long nap in their tatami-matted room. Long naps, I was told, help them get fat.



It was a superfun day of reporting.

On holiday in Tokyo

Lucinda is on vacation this week, and today we went to see the amazing Picasso exhibit at the gorgeous National Art Center, Tokyo.

The "Picasso: His Life, His Creation" show, plus a second show at the nearby Suntory Museum in Tokyo Midtown, presents more than 200 paintings, drawings and sculpture on loan from my favorite museum, the Musee National Picasso in Paris.

At the National Art Center, the works are laid out by period - blue period, Cubism, and so on - with famous paintings of Dora Maar and one I'd never seen, "Massacre in Korea."

In a parenting inspiration, I brought pads of paper for Lucinda and 3 other first graders who came with us (and another mom), and the museum provided perfectly sharpened, high-quality pencils when they saw us take out pens.

The girls seemed overwhelmed by the museum experience at first, but settled down when they started to copy some of the paintings and to, as I suggested, "move the furniture around" on drawings of other girls' faces.

This exhibit, which will close on Dec 14, is super-fantastic. Adults: 1500 yen; elem school kids: Free! I hope to take Blaine back, sans enfants, for a second look.

1st grade conversations

Lucinda and I have been talking about social situations in 1st grade, and I liked the dialogue enough to share it. One background detail: In Japan, children often settle disputes by playing "rock, paper, scissors," or "jankenpoi."

On Friday night, Lucinda told me that she and a friend, Anathea, disagreed about how they would play tag at recess. Lucinda preferred "fairy tag," and Anathea wanted "zebra tag." So they did jankenpoi and Lucinda won repeatedly; Anathea got upset. What, Lucinda asked me, should she do in that situation? I told her to think it over and we'd discuss the next day.

Yesterday (Saturday) I took her to a clothing store and lunch in Omotesando, while Blaine took Arno to the park to play baseball. On the train, Lucinda and I talked things over.

Me: Did you think about your choices in the situation with Anathea? What could you do when a friend is upset about losing?

Lucinda: I could tell her that the next time, I'd be "scissors" and she should be "rock."

Me: That's a good idea. What else could you do?

Lucinda: I could tell her that I'd be "rock" and she could be "paper."

Me: Okay, you could set it up so that she would win and feel better. What else could you do?

Lucinda: I could say that we could play zebra tag first and then fairy tag.

Me: What else?

Lucinda: Well, since I won, I could tell her that we could play fairy tag and then zebra tag.

Children are so literal sometimes, but they also eventually assess the big picture.

Economic troubles

As I wrote the previous post, about our upcoming vaca in Bali, I considered how out-of-touch we are, as expats in Tokyo, with the US financial crisis.

Unlike most Americans in the US, where costs for food, gas, and other commodities have risen and where many people are losing their homes, we pretty much live on a fixed budget with fixed costs, thanks to subsidies for housing, utilities and education from the Washington Post.

We don't have a car (though I often consider buying one), so we're unaffected by gas prices, and I've figured out how to buy groceries here without breaking the bank on $5 Japanese apples or pricey Japanese beef. Also, we've taken a pay-as-you-go approach to credit cards and have zero debt other than our Seattle mortgage. And we almost never buy expensive stuff, clothes, purses, shoes, or trinkets - even though that definitely puts me on the least-well-dressed list among expat wives.

So other than a shocking decline in our 401ks or other investment accounts, which we hopefully won't need for several years, I'm feeling fortunate that we can be cautious about our spending and ride out the next few years.

Vacation planning

We are noticeably terrible about vacation planning: always last minute, usually flummoxed about where to go or where to stay, and hesitant to spend money on an unknown destination.

But we're getting better: We've just decided to go to Bali during the Xmas holiday. We considered the Philippines because it's only a 3 hr flight, but the hotels were really expensive. Then our friends Rena and John suggested renting a "villa" in Indonesia because the plane tix aren't so bad, so I looked at villa rentals.

And now, on the suggestion of our friend Laurie, we've booked a "family special" room at the Westin in Nusa Dua for as little as $160/night, which includes breakfast and the all-important Kids Club, as long as we leave by Christmas Eve. That compares to $300-400/night for the same room after 12/24.

Considering that we'll take one long Asian vacation this year, this is relatively cost effective and should be delightful.

Blaine's latest...

...is a very cool story about geothermal energy production in the Philippines - and the fact that the Bush Admin gutted USG-sponsored geothermal research in 2006.

Meanwhile, a US Geological Survey report released this week says that geothermal plants on accessible public and private land in 13 Western states could "supply about half the electricity now generated in the United States."

Read that again: Half of the US electricity supply. Let's hope that Obama's energy advisers are clipping stories like this.

Hula invitation

Blaine has learned a new video editing program, Final Cut Pro, and this was the amusing test run he shot during our family outing today (Sunday).

The backstory: Lucinda is taking hula lessons at Nishimachi. She practiced her dance in front of Shinagawa train station this afternoon, as Arno slept contentedly in his stroller - in his favorite Superman pajamas. Grammy and Granddaddy are coming to visit us in a few weeks!

Disneyfied, Disneyfried

Japan is the perfect home for Disneyland because Japanese pop culture venerates small characters and cartoons and cuteness. So Tokyo Disney is prime-time for people-watching, cradle to grave.

I'm just going to upload a bunch of pix so you can see for yourself. Click any pic for a closer look.

Hair salon redux

A blog reader, whose daughter moved to Tokyo in the past year, asked me about my hair salon, so I thought I'd follow up with another blog post because I went there today for a color and cut.

I do go to the Aveda salon in Hiroo, right near the National Azabu supermarket (as the blog reader guessed). The real name of the place is Insolite salon. My stylist is Keisuke Naruse (Naruse-san), whom you can find on this page.

In truth, I have had mixed results at Insolite but continue to patronize the place because I really like the haircolor and, less predictably, the haircuts. Let's face it, there are problems with every hair salon and stylist. The first haircut always seems to be the best, and it often goes downhill from there.

At this salon, the service is predictably attentive - 20 minute shampoo and scalp massage, and my stylist bows to me when I leave - but the course of each visit is annoyingly unpredictable. Sometimes they steam my hair before adding the color. Sometimes the stylist dries my hair before cutting it. Sometimes he irons it before cutting it. Today, he cut it when it was still wet. Why? I have no idea.

Also, I've had some haircut issues. This summer, after I waved my hand above my shoulders to indicate a general preferred length, my stylist ironed and cut my hair into an impenetrable blunt-cut, which I thought made my head look like a block of wood. Having thrown two hours at the salon already, I panicked and shrieked to a salon employee who often becomes a translator, "Do you think this looks good? I don't think so!" (I'm rarely that vocal about a haircut.)

Sifting for a quick solution, I gave my approval for "layers," which in Japan can translate badly into super-spiky, 1980s cuts (like these photos). Naruse-san quickly sliced into my hair with his scissors as I told myself that this would be either the best or the worst haircut of my life. In the end, it was pretty good: much lighter and more stylish than usual, less "Junior League wife" than usual, but too strand-y at the back. I cut off the strands at home and it grew out pretty well.

The other problem with Insolite is that each visit lasts way too long, like 2.5 hrs, which kills my school-day hours of freedom. Today I was told the order of business would be: shampoo, cut, color, shampoo; the extra shampoo would have added another 20-30 mins! I stopped them and said, uh, no, I want to be finished in 2 hours, and I was done in 2 hrs 10 mins. And the cut is one of the best I've had.

So, for now, I'm happy and I'll go back in a few months.

Fyi, many women I know go to the more expensive Jennifer salon in Roppongi Hills, or they get their haircut at the salon at the Tokyo American Club.

"Buzz Lightyear is a real person"

When Arno had a day off from school last week, I took him to Tokyo Disneyland. What a day. 12 hours of Buzz Lightyear, It's a Small World, Mickey and Donald, Peter Pan, waiting in lines, and a nighttime Light-Bright parade. It was a lot of fun, though, and Arno was thrilled with the experience. This is what he looked like all day, pointing at stuff and saying, "Look!"


We went with my friend Laurie Lebrun and her son Max, who is in Arno's class at Willowbrook, and our friend Rachel and her daughter Audrey. Max is one year older than Arno but the boys get along really well. Laurie drove. Here's the highway in Tokyo and what we saw when we arrived.



Inside, the boys checked out the castle and Halloween decorations.





I've heard horror stories about crowds and hourlong lines for each ride. Fortunately, it wasn't that crowded and we also got lucky with our timing.

Our longest line - 45 mins - was for our second ride, Peter Pan's Flight. Arno totally loves Peter Pan. You climb into a pirate ship and sail, lickety-split, thru scenes from the movie. The ride lasts, like, 3 minutes, which is a bummer, but I did catch some quick pix that will be familiar to other experts of the Pan oeuvre. (This posting has too many pix, but what the hell.)



We spent a lot of time in Tomorrowland because the boys are really into space. There was the kinda-scary 3D movie MicroAdventure, a derivative of the movie "Honey, I Shrunk the Kids"...


and Arno's and my favorite ride, Buzz Lightyear's Astro Blasters. (We got a "FastPass" that reserved a ride-time, so we didn't have to wait in line.)



This ride was more active than most: you use an astroblaster gun to fire lasers at targets. Superfun! Here's a short "you are there, too" video.



And the StarJets ride. The boys wanted to wait until it was dark so it was more like "real space."


Disney serves mediocre food. Arno had french fries for lunch. I had a shrimp fritter (only in Japan?). But who cares? When the crowds flocked to a daytime parade, we hit the kid rollercoaster three times in a row with no line!

My least favorite ride was the Grand Circuit Raceway. Too noisy and smoggy. But the mini cars did make for good pix. Here's Laurie and Max...


I could barely squeeze into the car.


Here's Rachel and lovely 2-yr-old Audrey. Rachel's husband, Chris, is Disney's marketing manager in Asia. (My mom and Rachel are both Wellesley grads.)


Arno thought Pirates of the Caribbean was "too scary." I liked it when my family went to Calif. Disneyland 30 years ago, but now every other pirate looks like Johnny Depp. We went on the Jungle Cruise and to the Country Bear Theater. Tom Sawyer's Island closed at dusk - before we arrived. Roger Rabbit's Car Toon Spin broke down as we waited in line. Small World was eh. We skipped Pooh's Hunny Hunt because of the 1 hour line.

The boys went crazy in Goofy's Bounce House - though they were allowed only about 4 minutes for bouncing.


We stayed late to see the nighttime parade: Disney Princesses decked out like the Electric Horseman. It was pretty.


I'm going to overdose on Disney this month. In a few weeks, I'll take Lucinda (with some Nishimachi friends and their moms) to Tokyo Disneyland during her fall vacation.