Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving

We're celebrating our second Thanksgiving in Tokyo. This time we're having supper with our friends Laurie and Ken Lebrun and their children Sylvan and Max, who are in school with Lucinda and Arno.

I'm bringing green beans, champagne, fancy cheeses, and this apple pie, which I'm quite proud of.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Arno's birthday video

Blaine edited Arno's birthday video this weekend, and here it is. Cute boy, birthday chaos!

Friday, November 21, 2008

The Superhero's 4th birthday


Arno turned 4 last Saturday, Nov 15, and we all hung out together as a family. He did seem ever-so-slightly more mature, though I could be fooling myself. We did pretty much what he wanted all day:

First, we had pancakes and Arno played with the "Ultraman" toys that Lucinda bought him.


Later, they tried out the JD Razor scooters that they've been demanding. Blaine tried Arno's scooter - it was a little small!




He chose his (and Lucinda's) favorite Italian restaurant, La Boheme, where he enjoyed calamari and an enormous plate of his favorite food, noodles. Ultraman came along.



Finally, we went to Cold Stone Creamery for a mash of ice cream - and a hug from his sister.



Last Sunday, we had a Superhero birthday party at our house with 7 of Arno's friends. Blaine shot a video of the party, which I hope will make an appearance in the next few days.

Blaine's latest...

are several cool feature stories. (I'm way behind in my Blaine publicity work.)

1. On the front page of today's paper (Fri 11/21), Blaine has a wonderfully written "Innovators" piece called "Kafka of the Cubicle,". It's a delightful story about a computer guy who has invented a best-selling comic-book character called "Otaryman." The best thing about the piece is the lede:

By Blaine Harden
Washington Post Foreign Service
Friday, November 21, 2008; Page A01

TOKYO -- The American poet Theodore Roethke called it "the inexorable sadness of pencils." It's the desolation of time lost and dreams forsaken while sitting in an office.

Blaine says he read that poem in college! I'm impressed. Lucinda thinks "inexorable sadness of pencils" is very funny and, at dinner, offered "the inexorable sadness of" lots of other stuff, while Arno joked a dozen times about the "inexorable sadness of underpants."

2. Blaine wrote a neat story about incinerators in central Tokyo that burn trash at an extraordinarily high temperature (8500 degrees Centigrade) and use the heat to create electricity (via steam-driven turbines) for 20,000 households, to make sand for bricks and roads, and to heat water for a swimming pool at the "garbage factory," as it calls itself. And this incinerator is odor-free. Could that ever be built in NYC? (Here's the video.)

3. And he wrote a front-page story about this country's amazing "konbini" - convenience stores - that are ever more profitable even as grocery stores and dept stores have been losing money for decades.

He went to "Happy Lawson, a kid-friendly store that overlooks Yokohama Harbor, you can buy fresh sushi and carbon offsets, pay income tax and change diapers, book airplane tickets and sip vodka coolers. There's hot soup, cold beer, fresh bread, clean toilets, french fries, earwax remover, spotless floors, and a broadband-empowered machine that will order home appliances, book concert tickets and sign you up for driver's ed." And here's the video.

Friday, November 14, 2008

What's Going On

(With a nod to Newsday's former editor, Tony Marro, who always headlined his staff memos this way.)

Let's see, lots going on:

- Tomorrow, Nov 15, is Arno's 4th birthday. I think Lucinda will make pancakes for us all, because that's a 1st grade homework assignment as part of the food/health unit.

- On Sunday, seven four and five yr olds will come to our house for Arno's "superhero" birthday party. He chose the theme, and it's generic enough that I can serve Spiderman pasta and Superhero hotdogs and play a Buzz Lightyear game and no one will care. Every kid will decorate a superhero mask and shield and I'm making capes for them to wear (Hopefully my attempt to make eveything will work out all right.)

- I've worked long hours at my magazine, Kateigaho International Edition, this week and Blaine has collected the kids from school and made dinners. Nice role reversal!

- Next week, the kids have 3 days of school and 3 days of vacation wrapped around parent-teacher conferences and next weekend. I'm working on the Nishimachi book fair on Wednesday and getting mildly involved in Nishimachi's spring auction.

- Arno has been very moody recently, mostly depending on his willingness to go to sleep at a reasonable hour. On Monday and Tuesday, after he'd slept badly, he was a total pain. But Wed-Fri, we got him into bed early and threatened him w/toy-loss if he didn't stay there, so he a much happier and more enjoyable creature.

- Lucinda has been very confident lately. We've hired a Japanese tutor for a weekly lesson, which Lu enjoys. She is very proud that she knows all 46 of the hiragana and she is working on reading simple hiragana books. She's also become more interested and confident in addition and subtraction because her teacher focuses on math first thing in the morning. Her other focus in life is the game of Tag, which I think she plays at each of 3 daily recesses. I will write more about Tag at some point.

That's the overall update. We're doing well at the moment.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Post-election post

Geez, it's been almost an entire week since the election, and I'm finally getting around to writing about it. Thrilling result, obviously.

My mom, Sheila, was visiting with my stepfather, Blake. So we threw an election-day party. The Denver mother of a Tokyo friend, Susan Mulcahy, was here, with another Denver friend - whose daughter, it turned out, went to elementary and junior high school with me. Does that make sense? Grandmothers, mothers, and daughters - that sums it up. I also invited some American friends from Nishimachi. We had pastries, lots of coffee from Tully's and, eventually, sandwiches for lunch.

We turned on CNN at 8 a.m. Wednesday in Tokyo, which is 6 p.m. Tuesday on the East Coast, just as the first states were done voting. Things went pretty quickly in Obama's favor, as everyone knows.



Arno was an unexpected party guest; his teacher called me at 10 a.m. to say he wasn't feeling well. I brought him home and gave him a little medicine, and he was fine; he even refused to nap so he could hang out w/the grownups and watch election coverage.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Election in Tokyo

In a few hours, we'll go to sleep while America votes. And then we'll wake up on Wednesday, November 5, 2008, and watch the election returns on CNN. I think the first polls close at something like 8:30 a.m. in Tokyo.

My mom, who is a huge Obama fan and volunteer in Denver, is visiting, so we've invited some friends over to watch the returns with us. Should be fun. Full blog report tomorrow.

And if, by some stretch of horror, Obama loses, we're well-positioned to commit suicide.

Elex analysis

Here's what I've been thinking about lately - stories I'd like to see or write if I could. Of course this is predicated by the view that Obama will win tomorrow or hell will freeze over.

1. Look at the difference in nastiness between the Obama and McCain/Palin campaigns. True, Obama did imply that McCain was too old ("erratic") to be president and all but called Palin a ditz (that ad this weekend that featured her winking). But in lots of ways, the nature of the Obama campaign is the dog that didn't bark.

Take, for example, Al Qaeda's apparent/alleged endorsement of McCain. The Obama people didn't even mention it - but does anyone think the GOP would have ignored that for 5 mins had AQ's website promoted Obama?

Everyone thought the lesson of the Bush v. Gore and Bush v. Kerry campaigns was that you had to play as dirty as the GOP and Rove. That is, you had to grab every tiny opportunity to trash people.

But Obama managed, perhaps because of his generally sunny personality and smile and also because he focused mainly on big messages ("We can't afford 4 more years" and "voted with President Bush 90% of the time), to tiptoe through the tulips mostly unscathed without gutting his opponents personally. Kinda like this JibJab video when he flies around on a unicorn spouting "change!".

2. McCain has a weird Senate-ness about him - serial obsessions and language that prove he was stuck on the Senate floor focused on too-narrow issues that don't add up to anything significant. Like earmarks, and Columbia and Georgia (which he seems to mention constantly thanks to his lobbyist foreign-policy advisor), and the Boeing tanker deal he scotched, and "My friends!" I mean, sure, he could still win, but that would be in spite of himself, not because of his approach to campaigning. He's better off in the Senate, and he's lucky he didn't resign, like Dole did.

3. McCain does deserve credit for not playing the Rev. Wright card. This is, of course, what conservative Republicans will say did McCain in: they'll say he wasn't tough enough, he held back, he should have played even dirtier. But McCain and Palin don't deserve any credit for talking about socialism and Communism. That's just stupid.

4. Having said that, the McCain campaign did drop all sorts of anti-black and anti-gay hints at the end of the campaign. Like references to how raising taxes of hard-working people to "spread the wealth" to allegedly non-working people, which to me was an obvious allusion/smear of black welfare recipients. And various mentions of Barney Frank to crowds of Middle America - hmm, gee, why did they possibly mention Frank?

5. Palin is toast. She will run in 2012 and she will fail miserably and slink back to Alaska. Dan Quayle tried to run for President and it just didn't work. Once conservatives don't take you seriously, forget it. Also, it seems likely that there are more scandals buried in Alaska just waiting to turn up - who knows, maybe she won't survive her re-election campaign in 2010?

6. When it's all over, Hillary and McCain will go out to a bar and drink shots of tequila and whine about losing. Can you imagine the conversation: "I can't believe we both lost to Obama!" That would be a good SNL skit in the next few months.

7. I'd like to read a story about how black voters were mobilized in the South, presumably by churches or the NAACP or the Obama campaign. If Obama wins anything in the South, it will be because of black turnout - which takes serious organization, yes, but also serious commitment on the part of black leaders to get every possible voter registered and to the polls. Maybe that story has been written, but I haven't read it.

Election guessing

Back of the envelope guess about battleground states:

Obama will win PA, NC, VA, OH, CO, NV, NM, NH, ND and MT. Which would be a really huge win, and maybe I'm guessing a few states too far.

McCain will win FL, IN, and GA.

I'll go out on a limb and say the Dems will win 60 Senate seats, too. In 2006, everything broke their way in the Senate - so why not now? Maybe Obama voters will deliver an upset in KY or GA. One can only hope to wave au revoir to Mitch McConnell or Saxby Chambliss.

I don't have any idea about House numbers, but it won't really matter. It would be nice if Marilyn Musgrave, a GOP member in Colorado, loses because she's quite horrible.

And Christine Gregoire will be narrowly re-elected as WA governor. Hard to see how that many voters in WA split their tickets, when the state should be very strong for Obama.

So there are my guesses. But I do remember 1994, when I covered what I assumed would be the losing campaign night of an obnoxious GOP House member on Long Island - and he went on to win, along with Pataki (over Cuomo) and heaps of Republicans. What did I know then - and maybe what do I know now?

Sunday, November 2, 2008

TV and teen pregnancy

Scanning the web for Monday's news, this WashPost headline certainly caught my eye!

Study First to Link TV Sex To Real Teen Pregnancies

Of course one can suspect such things, but statistics leave a much more powerful impression. Here's the lede:

By Rob Stein
Washington Post Staff Writer
Monday, November 3, 2008; Page A01

Teenagers who watch a lot of television featuring flirting, necking, discussion of sex and sex scenes are much more likely than their peers to get pregnant or get a partner pregnant, according to the first study to directly link steamy programming to teen pregnancy.

The study, which tracked more than 700 12-to-17-year-olds for three years, found that those who viewed the most sexual content on TV were about twice as likely to be involved in a pregnancy as those who saw the least.

"Watching this kind of sexual content on television is a powerful factor in increasing the likelihood of a teen pregnancy," said lead researcher Anita Chandra. "We found a strong association." The study is being published today in Pediatrics, the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics.

All I can add is: Wow.