Thursday, October 30, 2008

Visitors from Denver


My mom, Sheila, and stepfather, Blake, are visiting for a few weeks. Sheila's cousin Lisa gave them two "buddy passes" from Delta, where Lisa worked for a very long time (Thanks, Lisa!), and helped them find flights in business class to Tokyo.

This is the second visit for Sheila and Blake together and the third for Sheila overall - we and the children greatly appreciate their presence. They've done some sightseeing and went to Kyoto for 3 days and 2 nights, returning this evening.

Now the kids want their attention for Halloween tomorrow, Lucinda's Brownie investiture, and various events over the weekend and next week. Meanwhile, I'm editing for Kateigaho International and doing other work, and volunteering for Nishimachi's upcoming book fair and spring auction. Lots going on these days.

We are also all waiting impatiently for next Tuesday's election to be over and done with.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

This would be funnier if the real possibility of Sarah Palin as President weren't so scary!

Friday, October 24, 2008

Blaine's latest...

... is a story about the Japanese newspaper industry, which is doing well for now but will struggle when its elderly Japanese readership dies off. I'm sure the story will get some decent play on the Romenesko media gossip website.

Blaine has also been writing heaps of stories about the global economic crisis. The latest is an A1 story about the "spiral" of recession.

The sumo stable


The magazine that I help edit, Kateigaho International Edition, gave me my first writing assignment in Japan: 800 words about the experience of watching sumo for the first time.

I spent several hours a week ago at Kokonoe-beya, a famous sumo "stable". It was fascinating, slightly bizarre and very eye-opening. I've watched it on TV and assumed it was an odd sport. But the sumo guy I interviewed described it instead as a battle in which, he said, you want to "rip your opponent's head off."

We (me, my translator, a Japanese writer and 2 photographers) watched six young guys train for about an hour on the ground floor of the modern building where they also eat, sleep and live. This is what it looked like outside.


And inside the ground floor training/viewing room.


They train 7 days a week. Wearing only loin cloths and sometimes a bit of tape on toes or fingers, they face off dozens of times - losing repeatedly to stronger, bigger men. They are like football players, except that they don't have helmets or any physical protection; there's a good chance they'll wind up face down in the dirt or even with a broken neck.

Most contests last only seconds and have few rules. The two men face each other inside a rice-straw circle, called a dohyo. They touch their hands down on opposing white lines in the center before charging upward at each other. You lose if any part of your body, other than your feet, touches the ground or if you are forced out of the circle.


After each man was exhausted in the ring (among other training exercises), they did a bunch of sumo stomps, in which they lift and extend each leg at about 120 degrees. They are heavyset and sometimes even quite fat - but also shockingly strong and flexible.


At the end of their training, they did some stretches.


Finally, the wrestlers swept the clay floor with twig brooms and wiped down the walls, window sills and every surface in the room. They turned out the lights, leaving natural light for this lovely photo.


We went outside where the wrestlers were hanging out, barefoot, in the street.


I interviewed an articulate 23-yr-old guy, Chiyoshuhou, who's been at it for 5 yrs; he's still an amateur and he is paid a $250 monthly allowance in return for total 24-7 commitment. He described each sumo clash as "a minor car accident." It's terrifying, he said, so the stable master tells them, "You have to force yourself forward."


The wrestlers did their own laundry and dried it on the roof. Here are their loin cloths, which turn out to be about 20 feet long.


Later, I was invited to try their lunch. They eat twice a day and consume enormous quantities of sumo's special "Chanko" stew (made that day with pork, noodles, tofu, vegetables and miso broth), rice, grilled fish, fish eggs, squid, tea, more rice and more rice. Not a protein shake in sight!


Here's what I ate: rice, the stew (which was particularly delicious) and chewy sauteed squid with a brown sauce.


After lunch, in order of seniority, the wrestlers' long hair was combed into fresh topknots by the stable's hairdresser (top photo). The hairdresser combs grease into the hair with a very unusual comb and ties it with a string held in his teeth (middle photo) and folds it over. His implements are in the third photo.






After the hair ritual was finished, the men did the dishes, cleaned the kitchen and dining room, and went upstairs for a long nap in their tatami-matted room. Long naps, I was told, help them get fat.



It was a superfun day of reporting.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

On holiday in Tokyo

Lucinda is on vacation this week, and today we went to see the amazing Picasso exhibit at the gorgeous National Art Center, Tokyo.

The "Picasso: His Life, His Creation" show, plus a second show at the nearby Suntory Museum in Tokyo Midtown, presents more than 200 paintings, drawings and sculpture on loan from my favorite museum, the Musee National Picasso in Paris.

At the National Art Center, the works are laid out by period - blue period, Cubism, and so on - with famous paintings of Dora Maar and one I'd never seen, "Massacre in Korea."

In a parenting inspiration, I brought pads of paper for Lucinda and 3 other first graders who came with us (and another mom), and the museum provided perfectly sharpened, high-quality pencils when they saw us take out pens.

The girls seemed overwhelmed by the museum experience at first, but settled down when they started to copy some of the paintings and to, as I suggested, "move the furniture around" on drawings of other girls' faces.

This exhibit, which will close on Dec 14, is super-fantastic. Adults: 1500 yen; elem school kids: Free! I hope to take Blaine back, sans enfants, for a second look.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

1st grade conversations

Lucinda and I have been talking about social situations in 1st grade, and I liked the dialogue enough to share it. One background detail: In Japan, children often settle disputes by playing "rock, paper, scissors," or "jankenpoi."

On Friday night, Lucinda told me that she and a friend, Anathea, disagreed about how they would play tag at recess. Lucinda preferred "fairy tag," and Anathea wanted "zebra tag." So they did jankenpoi and Lucinda won repeatedly; Anathea got upset. What, Lucinda asked me, should she do in that situation? I told her to think it over and we'd discuss the next day.

Yesterday (Saturday) I took her to a clothing store and lunch in Omotesando, while Blaine took Arno to the park to play baseball. On the train, Lucinda and I talked things over.

Me: Did you think about your choices in the situation with Anathea? What could you do when a friend is upset about losing?

Lucinda: I could tell her that the next time, I'd be "scissors" and she should be "rock."

Me: That's a good idea. What else could you do?

Lucinda: I could tell her that I'd be "rock" and she could be "paper."

Me: Okay, you could set it up so that she would win and feel better. What else could you do?

Lucinda: I could say that we could play zebra tag first and then fairy tag.

Me: What else?

Lucinda: Well, since I won, I could tell her that we could play fairy tag and then zebra tag.

Children are so literal sometimes, but they also eventually assess the big picture.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Economic troubles

As I wrote the previous post, about our upcoming vaca in Bali, I considered how out-of-touch we are, as expats in Tokyo, with the US financial crisis.

Unlike most Americans in the US, where costs for food, gas, and other commodities have risen and where many people are losing their homes, we pretty much live on a fixed budget with fixed costs, thanks to subsidies for housing, utilities and education from the Washington Post.

We don't have a car (though I often consider buying one), so we're unaffected by gas prices, and I've figured out how to buy groceries here without breaking the bank on $5 Japanese apples or pricey Japanese beef. Also, we've taken a pay-as-you-go approach to credit cards and have zero debt other than our Seattle mortgage. And we almost never buy expensive stuff, clothes, purses, shoes, or trinkets - even though that definitely puts me on the least-well-dressed list among expat wives.

So other than a shocking decline in our 401ks or other investment accounts, which we hopefully won't need for several years, I'm feeling fortunate that we can be cautious about our spending and ride out the next few years.

Vacation planning

We are noticeably terrible about vacation planning: always last minute, usually flummoxed about where to go or where to stay, and hesitant to spend money on an unknown destination.

But we're getting better: We've just decided to go to Bali during the Xmas holiday. We considered the Philippines because it's only a 3 hr flight, but the hotels were really expensive. Then our friends Rena and John suggested renting a "villa" in Indonesia because the plane tix aren't so bad, so I looked at villa rentals.

And now, on the suggestion of our friend Laurie, we've booked a "family special" room at the Westin in Nusa Dua for as little as $160/night, which includes breakfast and the all-important Kids Club, as long as we leave by Christmas Eve. That compares to $300-400/night for the same room after 12/24.

Considering that we'll take one long Asian vacation this year, this is relatively cost effective and should be delightful.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Blaine's latest...

...is a very cool story about geothermal energy production in the Philippines - and the fact that the Bush Admin gutted USG-sponsored geothermal research in 2006.

Meanwhile, a US Geological Survey report released this week says that geothermal plants on accessible public and private land in 13 Western states could "supply about half the electricity now generated in the United States."

Read that again: Half of the US electricity supply. Let's hope that Obama's energy advisers are clipping stories like this.

Hula invitation



Blaine has learned a new video editing program, Final Cut Pro, and this was the amusing test run he shot during our family outing today (Sunday).

The backstory: Lucinda is taking hula lessons at Nishimachi. She practiced her dance in front of Shinagawa train station this afternoon, as Arno slept contentedly in his stroller - in his favorite Superman pajamas. Grammy and Granddaddy are coming to visit us in a few weeks!

Friday, October 3, 2008

Disneyfied, Disneyfried


Japan is the perfect home for Disneyland because Japanese pop culture venerates small characters and cartoons and cuteness. So Tokyo Disney is prime-time for people-watching, cradle to grave.

I'm just going to upload a bunch of pix so you can see for yourself. Click any pic for a closer look.









Hair salon redux

A blog reader, whose daughter moved to Tokyo in the past year, asked me about my hair salon, so I thought I'd follow up with another blog post because I went there today for a color and cut.

I do go to the Aveda salon in Hiroo, right near the National Azabu supermarket (as the blog reader guessed). The real name of the place is Insolite salon. My stylist is Keisuke Naruse (Naruse-san), whom you can find on this page.

In truth, I have had mixed results at Insolite but continue to patronize the place because I really like the haircolor and, less predictably, the haircuts. Let's face it, there are problems with every hair salon and stylist. The first haircut always seems to be the best, and it often goes downhill from there.

At this salon, the service is predictably attentive - 20 minute shampoo and scalp massage, and my stylist bows to me when I leave - but the course of each visit is annoyingly unpredictable. Sometimes they steam my hair before adding the color. Sometimes the stylist dries my hair before cutting it. Sometimes he irons it before cutting it. Today, he cut it when it was still wet. Why? I have no idea.

Also, I've had some haircut issues. This summer, after I waved my hand above my shoulders to indicate a general preferred length, my stylist ironed and cut my hair into an impenetrable blunt-cut, which I thought made my head look like a block of wood. Having thrown two hours at the salon already, I panicked and shrieked to a salon employee who often becomes a translator, "Do you think this looks good? I don't think so!" (I'm rarely that vocal about a haircut.)

Sifting for a quick solution, I gave my approval for "layers," which in Japan can translate badly into super-spiky, 1980s cuts (like these photos). Naruse-san quickly sliced into my hair with his scissors as I told myself that this would be either the best or the worst haircut of my life. In the end, it was pretty good: much lighter and more stylish than usual, less "Junior League wife" than usual, but too strand-y at the back. I cut off the strands at home and it grew out pretty well.

The other problem with Insolite is that each visit lasts way too long, like 2.5 hrs, which kills my school-day hours of freedom. Today I was told the order of business would be: shampoo, cut, color, shampoo; the extra shampoo would have added another 20-30 mins! I stopped them and said, uh, no, I want to be finished in 2 hours, and I was done in 2 hrs 10 mins. And the cut is one of the best I've had.

So, for now, I'm happy and I'll go back in a few months.

Fyi, many women I know go to the more expensive Jennifer salon in Roppongi Hills, or they get their haircut at the salon at the Tokyo American Club.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

"Buzz Lightyear is a real person"

When Arno had a day off from school last week, I took him to Tokyo Disneyland. What a day. 12 hours of Buzz Lightyear, It's a Small World, Mickey and Donald, Peter Pan, waiting in lines, and a nighttime Light-Bright parade. It was a lot of fun, though, and Arno was thrilled with the experience. This is what he looked like all day, pointing at stuff and saying, "Look!"


We went with my friend Laurie Lebrun and her son Max, who is in Arno's class at Willowbrook, and our friend Rachel and her daughter Audrey. Max is one year older than Arno but the boys get along really well. Laurie drove. Here's the highway in Tokyo and what we saw when we arrived.



Inside, the boys checked out the castle and Halloween decorations.





I've heard horror stories about crowds and hourlong lines for each ride. Fortunately, it wasn't that crowded and we also got lucky with our timing.

Our longest line - 45 mins - was for our second ride, Peter Pan's Flight. Arno totally loves Peter Pan. You climb into a pirate ship and sail, lickety-split, thru scenes from the movie. The ride lasts, like, 3 minutes, which is a bummer, but I did catch some quick pix that will be familiar to other experts of the Pan oeuvre. (This posting has too many pix, but what the hell.)



We spent a lot of time in Tomorrowland because the boys are really into space. There was the kinda-scary 3D movie MicroAdventure, a derivative of the movie "Honey, I Shrunk the Kids"...


and Arno's and my favorite ride, Buzz Lightyear's Astro Blasters. (We got a "FastPass" that reserved a ride-time, so we didn't have to wait in line.)



This ride was more active than most: you use an astroblaster gun to fire lasers at targets. Superfun! Here's a short "you are there, too" video.



And the StarJets ride. The boys wanted to wait until it was dark so it was more like "real space."


Disney serves mediocre food. Arno had french fries for lunch. I had a shrimp fritter (only in Japan?). But who cares? When the crowds flocked to a daytime parade, we hit the kid rollercoaster three times in a row with no line!

My least favorite ride was the Grand Circuit Raceway. Too noisy and smoggy. But the mini cars did make for good pix. Here's Laurie and Max...


I could barely squeeze into the car.


Here's Rachel and lovely 2-yr-old Audrey. Rachel's husband, Chris, is Disney's marketing manager in Asia. (My mom and Rachel are both Wellesley grads.)


Arno thought Pirates of the Caribbean was "too scary." I liked it when my family went to Calif. Disneyland 30 years ago, but now every other pirate looks like Johnny Depp. We went on the Jungle Cruise and to the Country Bear Theater. Tom Sawyer's Island closed at dusk - before we arrived. Roger Rabbit's Car Toon Spin broke down as we waited in line. Small World was eh. We skipped Pooh's Hunny Hunt because of the 1 hour line.

The boys went crazy in Goofy's Bounce House - though they were allowed only about 4 minutes for bouncing.


We stayed late to see the nighttime parade: Disney Princesses decked out like the Electric Horseman. It was pretty.


I'm going to overdose on Disney this month. In a few weeks, I'll take Lucinda (with some Nishimachi friends and their moms) to Tokyo Disneyland during her fall vacation.